I did much of the same thing with my dad inside our shop, were he made and sold furniture. I would attempt to assist him every day when I was young. During this time my Dad taught me everything he knew about carpentry. He taught me how to router cabinets, put dovetails on drawers, apply stain without streaks. He also taught me how to hand crave headboards with different tools such as the gouge, chisel, and fishtail.
Throughout my young childhood I learned more about furniture making then most people learn in a lifetime. This only increased my desire to be like my dad. Later on in life he continued to teach me important lessons of life. He also taught me how to put up sheetrock and lay concrete and how to wire a house. Every day I strive to be like my father. When I get put into tough situations I try to remember everything he taught me and think what he would do in that certain situation.
My grandpa and I were very close. We shared many common interests Nebraska football and a love for sports. Every time we would visit him me and him would sit on the front porch and discuss sports and husker football. I found myself writing him during football season and talking on the phone to him. So when I found of he had cancer in the June of 1997 I was heartbroken.
I only saw my grandpa one more time before he died in August of 1997. I will never forget the day I saw him. He was lying in the hospital bed and was receiving chemotherapy at the time. When I saw him, I realized this wasn’t the same grandpa I was used to. He was tired and looked like a completely different person. Every time we go to see my grandma I stop by my grandpa’s grave. I usually spend about twenty minutes there just praying and thinking about the fun times we had together.
The whole crowd stopped and just watching him on stage, it was like nothing I’ve ever seen before. All eyes were on him as he stood up there and opened with Sweet dreams. It was a performance like none other. He was ripping pages out of the bible and running around. Everyone seemed to be in awe of what he was doing. When he started playing The Beautiful People the crowd erupted in happiness. Even though they were so happy to hear this song they still didn’t mosh. They just watched him flip the bird and run around stage. I have never witnessed a crowd be some captivated by one single person. Everyone listened to all his God hating words. This is one experience I will never forget as long as I live.
This move would not have been near as painful, but we were leaving our home of nearly twenty years. It was located on in acreage about three miles from the lake. I remember leaving the house for the last time and the whole trip to Templeton I relived all the good memories I had in that house. The second move came when I was going into eighth grade. We moved from Templeton, IA to O’Neill, NE. This was by far the most painful move of my life. I had two very close friends in Templeton and we spent every day together. We would play various sorts of games and just hang out and talk about the future. As we left the Templeton house to move I was torn apart. I didn’t want to leave my friends and as we drove to O’Neill all I could do was think about how much fun we had together and how much I was going to miss them. Every move made me a stronger person though. The title of this song truly describes how I feel about moving Every Mile a Memory.
My freshmen year I had a priest who I related to the best it was Father Paul Hoesing. He could relate to me and the rest of the class perfectly. He would teach us not only things about the bible, but also life lessons. He had an effect on me that no other priest has ever had. I listened to his every word and believed what he told me. He would tell us to watch what we do because if we aren’t careful they could come back to haunt us. Which is what Johnny Cash is saying throughout the whole video, if we don’t watch what we do God will “cut us down.” Father Hoesing changed me and made me into the person I am today.
I had to decide if I wanted to stay in O’Neill for a year of move with parents. Then shortly after I had started my senior year in O’Neill I received the news that my mother has breast cancer, after all of that everyone was willing to give me a helping hand in O’Neill. Though it was nice to have people there willing to help you it was still troubling not having my parents with me. I learned a lot during that time period about myself and also the people around. The most important thing I learned though was to just keep pushing forward even when the times get tough. No matter how hard things get you have to rely on those who love you and hope they turn out for the best, which in my case they did.
Over the years you grow very close to those people and become a family. So graduation was a very emotional day for our whole class, but at the same time you were ready to move on and begin the rest of your life. I remember sitting at the graduation ceremony having mixed feeling ones of sadness and ones of excitement. I didn’t want to say good-bye but at the same time I wanted to start the rest of my life and the adventure that was ahead of me. I felt like the guy in music video like I was alone and ready to start a new part of my life without them. I know all of my classmates are there for me, but it is nice to see everyone going in their separate ways but still keeping in contact.
This music video is by Kenny Chesney and is titled Don’t Blink. Throughout this video you see a man come home from work turn on the news and see another man turning 102 and the man who came home from work realized how fast his life has gone. He starts flashing back on all the memories he has and how fast his life has gone. I got a very similar feeling as I watched this music video. It seems like just yesterday I was helping my dad in the shop. Then next thing I knew I was at my grandpa funeral.
Before I knew it I was at my high school graduation, but now I’m in college and I wonder where the time went. I realize now that you can’t hold back and you got to say what you feel. The first eighteen years of my life have seem to gone by in a blink of an eye. Though they have been very enjoyable I also miss the days when I was younger without a worry. I hope the rest of my life is just as enjoyable as the first eighteen years were, but I hope I can find the time to cherish all the small things in life.

